If you gave it more thought, words don't really hold much anymore, I mean, we all want to hear someone say all the beautiful stuffs to e...
If you gave it more thought, words don't really hold much anymore, I mean, we all want to hear someone say all the beautiful stuffs to either boost us or encourage us but won't it be better if it wasn't just said but expressive?, So people expect me to say things atimes, well i don't say things that i don't mean except when i am angry, call me old fashioned but i am among the few that still believes in "my word is my bond", so if i say a thing, i like to keep it, like for instance if i say i will stay regardless of whatever shit you come up with or throw at me, i will stay and even after you must have told me to go away countless times and showed me that i don't matter, i will still behind the scenes stay put saying that if everyone goes away or everything goes wrong i will be here, crazy yeah?, I know.....that's why i don't commit until i am sure i can do that effortlessly.
Now it is crazy to think that a lot of people will think like me or act like i do because we all are not the same at all but.......yes, the but is.... what is the humane thing possible in respects to saying a bunch of things you say you would do or try to do but can't or won't do?,..... pause!, these words mean alot "can't, won't"......i often wonder if they are used wrongly, abused?, not sure...especially if you have not asked yourself if these words justify the act or what you are trying to express. Anyway, that is just my thought.......now back to the main point, we fall for words, i mean a lot, it can calm a raging storm and quench a fire, the simple sweetest things said can brighten your day but they can also be deceptive, make you not believe or trust people, Now i am more of let's see how it plays out than believe a thing, stucked in my subconscious mind not intentional anymore but more like a protective means from getting hurt.
The worst of it is when you hold the words of those that mean alot to you and see that it does not change much of anything after being said, you wonder what to believe or who to believe. I recently adopted a ready to go sentence in my head when things said don't go as promised.."don't expect anything, that way you won't be hurt". Yes yes, the only thing constant is change so there are times we might not have control over somethings, accepted!, however, i do believe that you owe it to the party involved to bring this change to their notice so that they don't get stucked on "assuming" and "waiting", it saves face and a relationship.
For me, i prefer you don't say a thing, i mean don't say things you can't do, before saying anything weigh it!, don't make promises that cannot be your bond, do not act sweet if you are not sweet!, Mean or harsh words but let us me real, if i give you 100%, give it back!, but then we are just different, my character as a person is different from yours, i guess that is what i should accept, dunno.....what do you think?
Now it is crazy to think that a lot of people will think like me or act like i do because we all are not the same at all but.......yes, the but is.... what is the humane thing possible in respects to saying a bunch of things you say you would do or try to do but can't or won't do?,..... pause!, these words mean alot "can't, won't"......i often wonder if they are used wrongly, abused?, not sure...especially if you have not asked yourself if these words justify the act or what you are trying to express. Anyway, that is just my thought.......now back to the main point, we fall for words, i mean a lot, it can calm a raging storm and quench a fire, the simple sweetest things said can brighten your day but they can also be deceptive, make you not believe or trust people, Now i am more of let's see how it plays out than believe a thing, stucked in my subconscious mind not intentional anymore but more like a protective means from getting hurt.
The worst of it is when you hold the words of those that mean alot to you and see that it does not change much of anything after being said, you wonder what to believe or who to believe. I recently adopted a ready to go sentence in my head when things said don't go as promised.."don't expect anything, that way you won't be hurt". Yes yes, the only thing constant is change so there are times we might not have control over somethings, accepted!, however, i do believe that you owe it to the party involved to bring this change to their notice so that they don't get stucked on "assuming" and "waiting", it saves face and a relationship.
For me, i prefer you don't say a thing, i mean don't say things you can't do, before saying anything weigh it!, don't make promises that cannot be your bond, do not act sweet if you are not sweet!, Mean or harsh words but let us me real, if i give you 100%, give it back!, but then we are just different, my character as a person is different from yours, i guess that is what i should accept, dunno.....what do you think?
