Hello, So its being a long time I wrote any article, but there is this I thing I thought of and thought it was okay to write about it, may...
Hello,
So its being a long time I wrote any article, but there is this I thing I thought of and thought it was okay to write about it, maybe get your opinions about it too, just like the title, its about relationships, My question.....is it possible to love two people at the same time?, can the heart accommodate two people and then feel the same way for each of them?...
Now how do you get to deal with it?, what if you where in a dilemma where you had to choose but you don't want to because that gives out the impression that you like the one you chose more than the one you left, but you feel the same way for both of them and you don't want any of them misinterpreting it.........
What if it starts to drive you insane with worry and it affects your day to day work and unbalance the way you used to see things initially?, will the best way out be to let go of both of them so that you can gain your sanity back? Now please lets consider some factors in between.........you never thought you would find yourself in two relationships but then there you are........and then with time found out you were, what's the world again......"DOUBLEDATING" and they tell you it cant work that way.....hence!, you have to choose......the factors again(trust, promises, future plans).....if you lose trust for one another and then you choose, will it still be the same?, what if the person tries to pay you back, coin for coin.....and you get to find out.......what do you do about it?
Interestingly, after thinking deep about it, I came to understand the passage that talked about God being love itself, and furthermore understanding that if you don't love yourself first, you cant love another person, for someone to love you unconditionally, he or she must first love God the Love itself, then he or she will love you wholeheartedly regardless of your flaws or mistakes, and the beauty is that he or she then helps you grow, some people don't know that they get to grow in love, why do you think the psalmist in the Bible said "my heart pants after you"?, he seeks for Him daily because he has grown in love....
In conclusion, when you know this fact, what then do you do? Choose one?, or let go of both and get to love yourself first and the love itself?......If you have another way that is different from what I have written above please feel free to drop them in the comment box, your views will be greatly appreciated.
Love,
Joy Newman.
So its being a long time I wrote any article, but there is this I thing I thought of and thought it was okay to write about it, maybe get your opinions about it too, just like the title, its about relationships, My question.....is it possible to love two people at the same time?, can the heart accommodate two people and then feel the same way for each of them?...
Now how do you get to deal with it?, what if you where in a dilemma where you had to choose but you don't want to because that gives out the impression that you like the one you chose more than the one you left, but you feel the same way for both of them and you don't want any of them misinterpreting it.........
What if it starts to drive you insane with worry and it affects your day to day work and unbalance the way you used to see things initially?, will the best way out be to let go of both of them so that you can gain your sanity back? Now please lets consider some factors in between.........you never thought you would find yourself in two relationships but then there you are........and then with time found out you were, what's the world again......"DOUBLEDATING" and they tell you it cant work that way.....hence!, you have to choose......the factors again(trust, promises, future plans).....if you lose trust for one another and then you choose, will it still be the same?, what if the person tries to pay you back, coin for coin.....and you get to find out.......what do you do about it?
Interestingly, after thinking deep about it, I came to understand the passage that talked about God being love itself, and furthermore understanding that if you don't love yourself first, you cant love another person, for someone to love you unconditionally, he or she must first love God the Love itself, then he or she will love you wholeheartedly regardless of your flaws or mistakes, and the beauty is that he or she then helps you grow, some people don't know that they get to grow in love, why do you think the psalmist in the Bible said "my heart pants after you"?, he seeks for Him daily because he has grown in love....
In conclusion, when you know this fact, what then do you do? Choose one?, or let go of both and get to love yourself first and the love itself?......If you have another way that is different from what I have written above please feel free to drop them in the comment box, your views will be greatly appreciated.
Love,
Joy Newman.
